General, Life, Life & Love, Single Life
Having one of those spells again.
Sigh.
You know what I’m talkin about:
the night has finally settled, it’s quiet-which means you can now hear and deal with your thoughts.
The spell I’m dealing with tonight is the “I-wish-I-was-in-a-relationship” spell.
I know-be careful what you wish for, blah-blah-blah. I’m just keepin’ it real.
I do have a biz life and for that I’m grateful-however I just (at this moment) wish I had a productive, relationship with a man of quality, who can love and appreciate me.
Bria.
I want some of this:
AND SOME OF THIS:
(images courtesy of Google)
I would lovvvvve to meet a guy who is :
- Single
- Christian
- a father of older (grown, or almost grown {like 16yrs old+}) children
- truly SINGLE (no baby mama drama, not legally separated, not married)
- Consistently employed
- Has a car
- Understanding that emulating R. Kelly and lusting after ( and sexing) young girls means YOU’RE A PERV just like R.Kelly!
- a ballroom dancer (optional)
- a man of values/integrity…not a liar, womanizer
- not dependent upon drugs/alcohol in order to have a good time.
- able to laugh at life’s mishaps. Knows how to relax
- Believes that “friends” means just that. Friends. There is no such thing as “friends with benefits.” What kind of idiocy is that????
Did you notice I didn’t say he had to make a certain amount of money, nor had to drive a Lamborghini??
So why is it so hard to meet men of quality these days?? There is a guy who is diggin’ me, but a relationship with him is NOT POSSIBLE. Eventhough his marriage (I’ll be 2nd banana to NO ONE) is kaput in theory…it’s not kaput officially. How can I pursue a relationship with a man who’s married?? NOT. Another guy who feels me…is not relationship material bcuz he has no car, will not step up to lead-I’m expected to run everything. I want to be lead, instead of being the leader-ALL THE TIME!! Am I wrong for that? I want to be charmed, courted, protected, made to feel secure…I want intimacy (NOT SEX, no bootycalls, no frickin’ friends w/benefits).
What’s so hard about that??
Thanks for letting me vent, family…I feel better now
Family…what do you have to say?
