BriaHaving one of those spells again.
Sigh.
You know what I’m talkin about:
the night has finally settled, it’s quiet-which means you can now hear and deal with your thoughts.
The spell I’m dealing with tonight is the “I-wish-I-was-in-a-relationship” spell.
I know-be careful what you wish for, blah-blah-blah. I’m just keepin’ it real.
I do have a biz life and for that I’m grateful-however I just (at this moment) wish I had a productive, relationship with a man of quality, who can love and appreciate me.
Bria.
I want some of this:
AND SOME OF THIS:
(images courtesy of Google)
I would lovvvvve to meet a guy who is :
- Single
- Christian
- a father of older (grown, or almost grown {like 16yrs old+}) children
- truly SINGLE (no baby mama drama, not legally separated, not married)
- Consistently employed
- Has a car
- Understanding that emulating R. Kelly and lusting after ( and sexing) young girls means YOU’RE A PERV just like R.Kelly!
- a ballroom dancer (optional)
- a man of values/integrity…not a liar, womanizer
- not dependent upon drugs/alcohol in order to have a good time.
- able to laugh at life’s mishaps. Knows how to relax
- Believes that “friends” means just that. Friends. There is no such thing as “friends with benefits.” What kind of idiocy is that????
Did you notice I didn’t say he had to make a certain amount of money, nor had to drive a Lamborghini??
So why is it so hard to meet men of quality these days?? There is a guy who is diggin’ me, but a relationship with him is NOT POSSIBLE. Eventhough his marriage (I’ll be 2nd banana to NO ONE) is kaput in theory…it’s not kaput officially. How can I pursue a relationship with a man who’s married?? NOT. Another guy who feels me…is not relationship material bcuz he has no car, will not step up to lead-I’m expected to run everything. I want to be lead, instead of being the leader-ALL THE TIME!! Am I wrong for that? I want to be charmed, courted, protected, made to feel secure…I want intimacy (NOT SEX, no bootycalls, no frickin’ friends w/benefits).
What’s so hard about that??
Thanks for letting me vent, family…I feel better now 
Family…what do you have to say?
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awww. hang in there girl!
lol@ the ballroom dancinggood luck finding that one
Hey girl, just know that we are in the same boat and you are not alone. do not surrender, do not give up!!Love how you wrote out exactly what you want, and as you keep praying over it keep believing that he is coming!BTW, if you find yours before I find mine see if he has a brother!!Peace & Love!
Being single has its benefits too. Celebrate them, and in the meanwhile…have you tried eHarmony {When you’re ready to find your Christian soul mate]?